Archive for May, 2010

How to End a Short Term Relationship

How to End a Short Term Relationship

 

Have you just started a new relationship and you are already questioning it?

Here are the few steps you need to follow if you already want to get out of this new relationship

1. Sometimes you start a relationship and you start wondering how you ever got here in the first place. Obviously if you have started dating someone, there must have been reasons for you to get involved: a certain physical attraction, nice moments you spent with this person, and then a kiss, which defines the moment you started a relationship.

2. But here you are, a few days or even weeks into this new relationship and you don’t feel comfortable in it. You’ve already reached the point where you’re trying to figure out how to get out of it while not hurting your new partner too much.

3. First thing first: try to make sure you do not want to pursue the relationship. No point in telling your partner you don’t feel like going on if you’re going to come back begging a few days later. So give yourself a little bit of time to be sure of your feeling.

4. Have you had an argument and are you mad at him/her? Sometimes people can surprise you and you discover things about them you wouldn’t have imagined in the first place. Are those differences incompatible with the way you picture a happy relationship? If they are, then yes, there is no reason in getting more involved. If these bad feelings have a specific reason, maybe it would be good to talk about it to your partner.

5. But more importantly just trust your feeling because this is the easiest clue to your new relationship’s future. If you haven’t been together long and you’re already bored, less attracted, even annoyed, or if you’ve realized this is more about friendship than possible love, don’t lure yourself into thinking “you can make it work”. You won’t overcome your first feelings. Trust yourself.

6. How to end a short-term relationship?

Well the same way you would end any relationship. Be honest and straight-forward. Don’t give false excuses but just tell the truth. It may not be easy because you may fear that your partner won’t understand your reasons (after all you don’t know him that well); but all this is not about rational reasons. It is only about the way you feel. And if you feel there is no chance in this relationship don’t apologize for it. You can’t make your feelings go away just by listening to apparently sound reasons. We have all at some point, left someone who tried to talk us out of it by pointing out the efforts he/she was going to make to adapt to what we wanted. But if someone has to change in the first place so that a relationship could work out, it is definitely a huge sign that you are not meant for each-other. So stand your ground. It’s the best you can do for this person, even if he/she can’t see it right now. And it’s certainly the best you can do for yourself.

7. The last step:

Of course as with any relationship, even if you haven’t been together a long time, don’t think you can go back to a normal friendship straight away. It is probably the biggest lie we like to tell ourselves to appease the pain that breaking up implies. But give yourselves some time apart to learn how to be together again in a non-sentimental way. If the relationship was short it won’t take as long as it might have with a longer one.

Tips
One thing ending a short-term relationship can bring you is to analyze the reasons why you chose to start a relationship with this particular person in the first place. Analyze the circumstances and why you obviously made a mistake because this will give you some indications about what not to do in the future.

 

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COMPLETE or FINISH LOVE

People say there is no difference between COMPLETE & FINISH.
But there is a difference.

 

When you love the right one you are COMPLETE.
&
When you love the wrong one you are FINISHED!

 

 

 

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Secret behind a happy married life

The Secret behind a happy married life

Once X asked Y, “What is the secret behind your happy married life?”

Y said, “You should share responsibilities with your love and respect to each other. Then absolutely there will be no problems.”

X asked, “Can you explain?”

Y said, “In my house, I take decisions on bigger issues where as my wife decides on smaller issues. We do not interfere in each other’s decisions.”

Still not convinced, X asked Y “Give me some examples”

Y said, “Smaller issues like which car we should buy, how much amount to save, when to visit home town, which Sofa, air conditioner, refrigerator to buy, monthly expenses, whether to keep a maid or not etc are decided by my wife. I just agree to it”

X asked, “Then what is your role?”

Y said, “My decisions are only for very big issues. Like whether America should attack Iraq, whether Britain should lift sanction over Zimbabwe, whether to widen African economy, whether Sachin Tendulkar should retire etc. Do you know one thing, my wife NEVER objects to any of these”.

 

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Whatever you give

 

Whatever You Give

 

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Beautiful Quotes 2

 

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Hotel Key Cards

 

HOTEL KEY CARDS 

Ever wonder what is on your magnetic key card? 

Answer

a. Customer’s name 
b. Customer’s partial home address 
c. Hotel room number 
d. Check-in date and out dates 
e. Customer’s credit card number and expiration date! 

When you turn them in to the front desk your personal information is there for any employee to access by simply scanning the card in the hotel scanner. An employee can take a hand full of cards home and using a scanning device, access the information onto a laptop computer and go shopping at your expense. 

Simply put, hotels do not erase the information on these cards until an employee reissues thecard to the next hotel guest. At that time, the new guest’s information is electronically ‘overwritten’ on the card and the previous guest’s information is erased in the overwriting process. 

But until the card is rewritten for the next guest, it usually is kept in a drawer at the front desk with YOUR INFORMATION ON IT! 

The bottom line is: Keep the cards, take them home with you, or destroy them. NEVER leave them behind in the room or room wastebasket, and NEVER turn them into the front desk when you check out of a room. They will not charge you for the card (it’s illegal) and you’ll be sure you are not leaving a lot of valuable personal information on it that could be easily lifted off with any simple scanning device card reader. 

For the same reason, if you arrive at the airport and discover you still have the card key in your pocket, do not toss it in an airport trash basket. Take it home and destroy it by cutting it up, especially through the electronic information strip! 

If you have a small magnet, pass it across the magnetic strip several times. Then try it in the door, it will not work. It erases everything on the card. 

Information courtesy of:  Metropolitan Police Service.

PLEASE FORWARD to friends and family

 

 

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3 things in life

Three things in life that,

once gone,

never come back –

TimeWordsOpportunity

Three things in life that may never be lost –

Love    Self-confidence  Friends

 

Three things in life that is never certain –

Dreams  Success   Fortune   

 

Three things that make a man/woman –

Hard work  Sincerity  Commitment

Three things in life that can destroy a man/woman –

Alcohol   Pride   Anger 

Tengkp

 

 

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http VS https

 

Difference between

http:// and https://

Very important ……. must know …….

Dear Friends,


The main difference between http:// and https:// is –

It’s all about keeping you secure, HTTP stands for HyperText Transport Protocol, which is just a fancy way of saying it’s a protocol (a language, in a manner of speaking) for information to be passed back and forth between web servers and clients.

The important thing is the letter S which makes the difference between HTTP and HTTPS. The S (big surprise) stands for ‘Secure’.

If you visit a website or webpage, and look at the address in the web browser, it will likely begin with the following:

http://
. This means that the website is talking to your browser using the regular ‘unsecure’ language..

In other words, it is possible for someone to ‘eavesdrop’ on your computer’s conversation with the website. If you fill out a form on the website, someone might see the information you send to that site.


This is why you never ever ever enter your credit card number in an http website!


But if the web address beg ins with
https://, that basically means your computer is talking to the website in a secure code that no one can eavesdrop on.

You understand why this is so important, right?


If a website ever asks you to enter your credit card information, you should automatically look to see if the web address begins with
https://. If it doesn’t, there’s no way you’re going to enter sensitive information like a credit card number!

http VS https

I had check the Tigerair http://www.tigerairways.com/home/
and Jetstar airways
http://www.jetstar.com/3k/index.html
both when come to booking the ticket and keying the personal information it’s show https BOOKING

https://booking.tigerairways.com/skylights/cgibin/skylights.!

and https://jetstar.com/skylights/cgi-bin/skylights.cgi

SO it is safe to do that booking…. pls remember when you buy any thing online make sure passing your information on the website showing https REPEAT https……. . don’t do anything that is without the ‘s’

 

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Facts about your mobile phone

FOUR THINGS YOU PROBABLY NEVER KNEW YOUR MOBILE PHONE COULD DO 


there are quite a few things that can be done in times of grave emergencies.

Your mobile phone can actually be a life saver or an emergency tool for survival.

Check out what you can do with it: 

 

FIRST  

 
Emergency 

The Emergency Number worldwide for   Mobile is 112.


If you find yourself out of the coverage area of your mobile; network and there is an emergency,
dial
 112 and the mobile will search any existing network to establish the emergency number for you,
This number 112 can be dialed even if the keypad is locked. Try it out. 


SECOND

 

Have you locked your keys in the car? 
Does your car have remote keyless entry?   This information may come in handy someday. 
 If you lock your keys in the car and the spare keys are at home, just call someone at home and ask them to 
get your spare key and their mobile phone.  Then hold your cell phone about a foot from your car door and have the person at home press the unlock button on the spare key, holding it near their mobile phone.
Your car will unlock and saves someone from having to drive your keys to you.

Distance is no object. You could be hundreds of miles away but if you can reach someone who has 
the other ‘remote’ fey or your car, you can unlock the doors (or the trunk). 


Editor’s Note: It works well! We tried it out and it unlocked our car over a mobile phone!’
 

THIRD 
 

  


Hidden   Battery  Power 

Imagine your mobile battery is very low.  To reactivate, press the keys *3370#   and your mobile will restart with this reserve and will show a 50% increase in battery. 


This reserve will get charged when you next recharge your mobile. 


FOURTH 

 

How to disable a STOLEN mobile phone? 
To check your mobile phone’s serial number, key in the following digits on your phone: * # 0 6 # 


A 15 digit code will appear on the screen.  This number is unique to your handset. Write it down and keep

it somewhere safe.  If your phone gets stolen you can phone your service provider and give them this code.

They will then be able to block your handset so even if the thief changes the SIM card your phone will
be totally useless.

You probably won’t get your phone back, but at least you know that whoever stole it
can’t use it or sell it either. 


If everybody did this, there would be no point in people stealing mobile phones. 


 

ATM – PIN Number Reversal – Good to Know 
If you should ever be forced by a robber to withdraw money from an ATM machine, you can
notify the police by entering your PIN # in reverse.

For example, if your pin number is 1234 then you would put in 4321. 

The ATM system recognizes that your PIN number is backwards from the ATM card you placed in the machine.

The machine will still give you the money you requested but, unknown to the robber, the police will be
immediately dispatched to the location. 


This information was recently broadcast on CTV by Crime Stoppers however it is seldom used because

people just don’t know about it.   Please pass this along to everyone.

This is the kind of information people don’t mind receiving, 
 

 

Uncle Teng

 

  

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You think you know everything?

For Those Who Thought They Knew EverythingHere is the refresher course.

The liquid inside young coconuts can be used as a substitute for blood
plasma.

No piece of paper can be folded in half more than seven (7) times. Oh
go ahead… I’ll wait…

Donkeys kill more people annually than plane crashes or shark attacks.

You burn more calories sleeping than you do watching television.

Oak trees do not produce acorns until they are fifty (50) years of age
or older.

The first product to have a bar code was Wrigley’s gum.

The King of Hearts is the only king WITHOUT A MOUSTACHE

American Airlines saved $40,000 in 1987 by eliminating one (1) olive
from each salad served in first-class.

Venus is the only planet that rotates clockwise.
(Since Venus is normally associated with women, what does this tell you?)
(That woman is going the ‘right’ direction…)

Apples, not caffeine, are more efficient at waking you up in the
morning .

Most dust particles in your house are made from DEAD SKIN! Oooh!

The first owner of the Marlboro Company died of lung cancer. So did the
first ‘Marlboro Man’.

Walt Disney was afraid OF MICE!

PEARLS DISSOLVE IN VINEGAR!

The three most valuable brand names on earth: Marlboro, Coca Cola, and
Budweiser, in that order.

It is possible to lead a cow upstairs… but, not downstairs.

A duck’s quack doesn’t echo, and no one knows why.

Dentists have recommended that a toothbrush be kept at least six (6)
feet away from a toilet to avoid airborne particles resulting from the
flush.

(I keep my toothbrush in the living room now !)

And the best for last….

Turtles can breathe through their butts.
(I know some people like that, don’t YOU ?)

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